Does your spouse ever have to leave town for work? Mine does. Up until this last position, the only nights we had ever spent apart came after my brother had been in a serious car accident. It was right before finals week so my husband wasn't able to come with me to be with family. With his new job we are still so fortunate that his work trips are not frequent. I know so many women whose spouse is in the military or other jobs in which they are required to be away from their families for weeks at a time.
When I look at it that way, a week here and there doesn't seem too bad. I have found that by adding structure and routine into my days, the week goes by much faster. I try to devote all my time to my son when he is awake and save blogging and projects for nap time and bedtime. Then he gets the attention he needs and I have the mental release and creative distraction I so crave when my husband is gone. The only problem comes when I get so into a project that I realize I've been at my sewing machine longer than I had planned. Is is really 1, 2, 3 AM?
The next day I find myself dragging my feet and praying that nap time comes quickly and will last the full two hours so I can catch a nap as well. So there are days of ebb and flow as I make up for my late nights, but it gets me through to the end of the week with the sweet return of my husband.
For all those who have spouses who leave town time and again, what do you do to make the time pass by? Here's what I created last night. My mom had something like this in her home. I used the same material from the crib bedding I made for my son two years ago (will post later... those pictures are on my external hard drive and I'd love to share the finished product with you). It was a quick and easy project that I plan on repeating twice more for our living room and bedroom.
I love it even with just the cover and ribbon. The others will look similar to this.